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  • Energy Bite 400 – Your Personal Energy, 2022

    Well, here we are again, at the beginning of another new year — 2022. May you enjoy it with energy, enthusiasm, and love of life.

    In my closing post for 2021, I wrote that when I started “The Come Alive Project” over a decade ago, the goal was to deliver useful messages about Health, Fitness and Personal Energy for Active Seniors. The purpose was, and is, to help avoid the stagnation and deterioration that comes with the way so many people age, and to fully engage with the continuous flow of an active and productive senior lifestyle.

    The operative term in the above paragraph is “Personal Energy”. By Personal Energy, I mean the physical, mental, emotional and even spiritual energies that go into the way each of us chooses to live our lives.

    Personal Energy describes the “life force” within each of us that keeps us active, makes us feel good, propels us toward our goals, and lets us “come alive”. We all have the ability to either improve and expand that life force, or allow it to dissipate. It is entirely up to each of us as to which direction we choose.

    It is the PHYSICAL energy that gives us the capability to actually DO the things we want to do. I will continue to focus a bit more on the PHYSICAL energy than on the others, but all will be included in these posts.

    The PHYSICAL Energy we have within us is determined by three major components: (1) The way we move our bodies, the effort we put into it, and our ability to rest and recover from the effort, (2) The way we fuel our bodies — the quality and quantities of fuel (food and oxygen) we use, how the body absorbs and converts it to energy at the cellular level, and (3) The way we approach life, whether with positive enthusiasm, or a depressed and lethargic approach to our aging. Energy and enthusiasm for life go hand in hand.

    I believe that the way we approach life is determined by the Physical Energy we have available to us to live that life, and that we have the power within us to vastly increase our physical energy. This will result in major improvements in our mental, emotional and even our spiritual energy, allowing us to age healthfully, happily, productively and enthusiastically.

    I know that in many cases I am preaching to the choir. Yet so many other seniors have allowed themselves to become sluggish, slow moving, depressed (not necessarily in a clinical way), along with increased susceptibility to age related and other chronic illnesses, tensions, poor sleep habits and physical weakness, most of which can be avoided with changes in habit patterns and simple lifestyle adjustments.

    So these posts will continue to focus on those things that should improve our Health, Fitness and Personal Energy and to provide examples, stories, techniques and other aspects of Personal Energy which, when implemented, can dramatically improve our Personal Energy and Enthusiasm for engaging in that continuous flow of an active senior lifestyle. I hope you continue to find them useful.

    As I wrote in my last post, I will continue to speak to groups, do occasional workshops on aging and longevity, and do whatever else I can to get the message out there. I am also compiling, editing and re-writing some of the former posts and providing additional new content into a book format which should be available later in the year.

    So, I hope 2022 will find you energized and engaged, a life filled with enthusiasm, vitality, and zest for the life you are given. Happy New Year to all.

    Thank you for reading.

  • Energy Bite 399 – A Walk Down the Path to Life

    My wife and I were walking with a few friends the other day. A long walk. One couple came down from New Hampshire to visit their grandkids and the other couple recently moved to a 55 and Over Retirement Community.

    It was a beautiful day. Sunshine. Chilly, but not cold. We expected to see a bunch of people from this 55 and over community out walking, too. I mean it was truly a beautiful day for walking.

    How many people do you think we saw on the walking path? We saw two people over roughly an hour and a half. Now this is a community of over 1700 homes. It is adjacent to and surrounded by other similar Retirement Communities. Yet we saw only two people out walking.

    I am in my early 80s. My wife and everyone else in our group are in their seventies. We are active. We were outdoors. It was beautiful. As a group, we have walked together and socialized together many times. Often the conversation is about staying active and enjoying life.

    I commented in a recent post that so many Senior men and women retire, have a couple of years of fun, and then settle into a life spent mostly indoors watching reruns or shows on one of the Movie channels. They seem to run out of physical and mental energy, begin to isolate, and slowly start down that road to physical decline.

    The couple who live in that over 55 community agreed and said that is pretty much what they see most of the time. Rarely do they see people on the walking paths. They commented on how little they see of their neighbors, even when the weather is perfect.

    They said the community has an outstanding fitness center but that is lightly used. Why not? Enough articles have been written in Magazines, Health Sections of major newspapers, and many other outlets that every Senior should be totally aware that walking and other forms of exercise and physical movement are key factors in living a long, healthy, and INDEPENDENT life.

    My friends who live in this community say there is an active “Pickleball” environment there and the turnout of numbers of players is around 40 or so people. Pickleball is a sport that has huge popularity for Seniors, and is gaining popularity exponentially.  I have yet to try Pickleball, but I plan to give it a shot this coming Spring. Expect an article soon on this rapidly expanding sport.

    Eleven years ago, when I started “The Come Alive Project”, the goal was to deliver useful messages of health, fitness and personal energy for Active Seniors, to help them avoid the stagnation and deterioration that comes with the way most people age, and to insert themselves into the continuous flow of an active senior lifestyle.

    At that time, I had several conversations with another friend who was one of the original members of the President’s Council On Physical Fitness. We were talking about how best to get the message of health, fitness and personal energy out to Seniors. He is a devotee of doing it as a local government/municipal effort, while I believe in approaching it on the basis of individual responsibility.

    People like Dan Buettner, author of the book Blue Zones, have done a wonderful job of getting city and local municipalities to become serious about providing outdoor facilities and public relations campaigns to encourage people to walk, run and ride bikes on community provided paths and trails. But it is mostly the younger members of those communities who are getting the message,  taking action, and using the facilities to stay fit. The older generations seem to rebel against that sort of activity, or are simply complacent about their own health and fitness.

    My project is not about telling Seniors how to exercise. It’s about inspiring Seniors and showing them how to get, keep, and use their Personal Energy to live a long and active life, to remain independent, and to engage with other like-minded Seniors to help stay on track.

    So, I’ll keep the blog going, continue to speak to groups, and do occasional workshops on aging and longevity, and do whatever else I can to get the message out there. You can help by showing these articles to other Seniors and get them to join in the effort like you have.

    Fitness facilities may be available, but it is up to the individual to use them. Paths may be provided for you, but it is up to you to walk them. Keep on moving!

    Thank you for reading.

  • Energy Bite 398 – What is Your Legacy Project?

    After your retirement begins, and the initial “fun things” you wanted to do have worn off, what will you do the rest of your Senior Years that will be meaningful to either yourself, others, or both.

    Many of us will just retire, do those fun things for a while and then get bored, listless, lethargic. Some of us will ask ourselves “is that all” while other will ask “what next”. So many say “is that all” and start the serious physical deterioration that comes with age. They will become the stereotypical Senior and start digging that deep pit to despair and lack of hope for an Active future, or just wallow in boredom while their body starts into a premature decline.

    Others will have something in the back of their mind that they have wanted to do but never got around to, and leave a legacy behind them that is on a different path from the one on which they spent the majority of their productive years.

    A legacy project is something you do or create that you will leave behind you, and that you do to fulfill some sort of PURPOSE for yourself and gives you a reason for living alive.

    You may have wanted to take up golf. You may have wanted to “save the world from (you pick it).” “I’ll do (again you pick it) when I retire and stay active and do things.”

    You may have wanted to take up painting or write a family history. You may want to do something just for yourself, something as diverse as learning to skydive or learning a new skill and putting it to use.

    Sure, you may have wanted to do it, but when the opportunity presents itself, most people don’t. They give themselves excuses like “I’m too old now”, or “I can’t, it’s too late in life to do it”, or something similar.

    Then the body starts wasting away and the mind starts deteriorating and the project that you had your heart set on, dies with your attitude and age.

    Take a moment while you’re reading this and ask yourself: “What was that ONE THING that I really wanted to do when I retired but never got around to it?” It doesn’t have to be something that saves Humanity. It doesn’t even have to be anything big. It just has to be something that YOU wanted to do that you never did.

    My own legacy project is still a work in progress. I planned for The Come Alive Project to be a vehicle to get a message of Health, Fitness, Personal Energy and Active Participation in Life, to active Senior men and woman, and to get that message out through speaking, writing, blogging, and workshops. My original plans were to create a Senior Lifestyle Retreat Center and provide seminars, classes and retreats for active seniors who genuinely wanted to discover the Fountain of Youth within them, and were willing to take the time and effort to learn and participate.

    I have been doing the blogging for over a decade. I have done a number of talks and workshops but not on the scale that I originally planned. Instead of having a separate retreat center, I did the workshops in churches and rented facilities. I started doing all that at age 70 and it took a major lifestyle change to get in a position to where it was even feasible for me to start.

    I will continue to do workshops as we move beyond the COVID “thing” and get away from ZOOM and other artificial environments. I have done talks to groups on ZOOM and I have not adapted particularly well to that format. I will continue to do ZOOM presentations when asked.

    Not everyone will want to create a Legacy Project but it can add some pizazz and PURPOSE to otherwise non-eventful, even boring, senior years. And don’t forget, having a PURPOSE in life is a major marker of Longevity and Happy Aging. Give it a shot. You might find it will help you discover your own Fountain of Youth.

    Thank you for reading.